Dumb Decision, Intelligent Decision or Wise Decision.

When any dispute, dislike, miscommunication or misunderstanding arises in a relation one can take a

Dumb Decision, Intelligent Decision or Wise Decision.

Dumb decision would be to remain stuck with the issue and keep resisting it either passively or actively. Make your togetherness with that person conditional and go on insisting and demanding the change. By this we give the POWER of our life to that person and situation and convey that he is the authority over us.

Intelligent decision would be to Accept that neither you are able to change the situation the way you want and nor you are able to accept the situation or other persons perception about the situation, and go for a mutual termination of that relation with grace and respect rather than hurt and accuses. By this we take the charge of our lives and allow us the POWER to shape our lives.

Wise decision ……. I leave it to you as wisdom comes from within and cannot be given by anyone else. Only the clue I can share is the wise decision allows you to EMPOWER neither that person only (as in first case) nor you (as in second case) but the RELATIONSHIP ITSELF.